I have no insight whatsoever into whether this is what he did, but the abrupt cutting off is similar to what you describe that I simultaneously hope this is what it is since it helps me understand what happened, but I also find it so hard to come to terms with…It’s weird to me that what you describe is so similar in nature even though the person I’m talking about isn’t even someone I dated, but cared about deeply and shared a deep connection with. I’m definitely devastated, but also grateful since I feel like I now I’m open to love after being shut off for a long long time. Still, I wonder what attracts me to quirky, intelligent and introverted people who clearly have some big personal issues they’re dealing with. I think it comes from a place of wanting to take care of and fix the person which is not okay because it’s honestly not my job. Lesson in progress…

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Aleesha Suleman

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Identity, personality and relationships: works-in-progress. Join me in the unearthing of myself through my writing. Karibuni!

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